In an editorial piece for the Autumn/Winter 2017 edition of Absolutely Education Prep and Pre-prep magazine, Colin Baty, Head of Bedales Prep, Dunhurst, explains that boarding can be a daunting prospect to those who have not experienced it before, which is where boarding for prep school children really comes into its own.
Boarding at senior level brings with it routines and expectations. Boarders must be able to get along with others – both their peers and staff – and to learn to use the freedoms that boarding grants them with responsibility. This requires them to try things, to make mistakes, and to learn from their experiences.
Colin says: “At Bedales we are great advocates of the benefits of boarding – it helps young people to develop resilience and learn how to get along with others, and to take full advantage of what is available to them at school outside the classroom. It can also be great fun.”
Each school has its own ethos and personality, and Colin advises all parents to make this a major consideration in any choice they make with regard to boarding. He concludes: “Bedales’ aim in the way it approaches the pastoral care of pupils is to try to create a family – it is the relationships between staff and pupils, and between pupils themselves, which contribute to this atmosphere. It is my experience that boarding pupils grow into being very socially adept individuals, who look after each other and thrive academically.”
The full article can be read here, scrolling to page 63.